When helping your parents move to a smaller home, one of the hardest questions quickly becomes: “What should they keep?” The process of sorting through a lifetime of belongings isn’t just about space—it’s about meaning, comfort, and letting go with grace.

The key is to start by identifying what truly matters to them on a daily basis. That might be their go-to cookware, the jacket they always reach for, or the chair where they read every morning. Essentials come first—clothing they wear often, kitchen items they use every week, medications, and personal care tools they rely on. But it’s not just about function—emotional significance counts too. If a photo album brings them joy or an old recipe box holds a lifetime of holiday memories, that has a place in the new home as well.

On the flip side, some items can gently be released. Think about duplicate items—extra linens or dishes that rarely get used. Oversized furniture pieces might not fit comfortably in the new space. Outdated paperwork or technology can be safely discarded or recycled. And those “just in case” boxes in the attic? It may be time to say goodbye to them, too.

What helps during this process is having a clear vision of their next home. If you have access to a floor plan, use it. Visualizing where the essentials will go makes it easier to let go of what won’t fit. Labeling items as “Keep,” “Donate,” “Sell,” or “Pass to Family” can bring structure to what might otherwise feel like chaos.

And remember—this process should never feel forced. Give your parents room to feel their feelings and make decisions at their own pace. Be there not as someone rushing them through it, but as a partner walking beside them, with compassion and patience.

In the end, downsizing isn’t about losing everything—it’s about choosing what to bring into a simpler, safer chapter that still feels like home.

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